Q: What are the 3 main ways to end a marriage or registered domestic partnership in California?
Q: Is it is not necessary for both spouses or domestic partners to agree to end the marriage?
Q: Who can decide to end the marriage?
A: Either spouse or partner can decide to end the marriage, and the other spouse/partner, even if he or she does not want to get a divorce, cannot stop the process by refusing to participate in the case. If a spouse or domestic partner does not participate in the divorce case, the other spouse/partner will still be able to get a “default” judgment and the divorce will go through.
Q: What does “no fault” divorce mean?
A: California is a “no fault” divorce state, which means that the spouse or domestic partner that is asking for the divorce does not have to prove that the other spouse or domestic partner did something wrong.
Q: How can I get a no fault divorce?
A: To get a no fault divorce, one (1) spouse or domestic partner has to state that the couple cannot get along. Legally, this is called “irreconcilable differences.”
Q: What steps should I take if I have decided to end my marriage or domestic partnership?
A: After you decide how you want to end your marriage or domestic partnership, you need to plan your case ahead of time. Think about how you are going to handle your case. Planning before you start and talking to a lawyer can save you time and money as you go through the court process. And keep in mind that, normally, it does not matter who is the first to file the divorce or separation case. The court does not give any preference to the first person to file or a disadvantage to the person who responds to the case.
Q: How can I end a registered domestic partnership?
A: If you want to end a registered domestic partnership, domestic partners must also file for dissolution (divorce), legal separation, or annulment to end their relationship. There is a limited exception where domestic partners can end their relationship in a summary process through the Secretary of State if they have been registered for less than five years and they have no children, no real property, very few assets or debts, and a written agreement on dividing their property, in addition to other restrictions. Please visit the California Courts’ website to learn more about summary dissolution of domestic partnership at: https://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-summarydissolution.htm
Note on federal law and domestic partnerships: Federal law does not recognize domestic partnerships for most purposes, such as Medicare, immigration law, veterans' benefits, and federal tax laws. Domestic partners may be recognized for some federal purposes, such as Social Security. In addition, domestic partners may not have the same rights if they leave California because other states may not recognize domestic partnerships. Talk to a lawyer if you are ending a domestic partnership and any of these issues may apply to you. You may also want to talk to an accountant who is knowledgeable about these issues.